Stop Abandoning Yourself: Why You Keep Choosing Everyone Else Before You

Name: Stop Abandoning Yourself: Why You Keep Choosing Everyone Else Before You
Start: 2026-08-06T18:00:00.000Z
End: 2026-08-06T21:00:00.000Z
Location: melbourne

melbourne, melbourneThursday, Aug 6 · 2:00 PM

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## Stop Abandoning Yourself ### Why You Keep Choosing Everyone Else Before You Thursday 6th August 7:00–8:00 PM BST online via Zoom There comes a point in healing where the problem is no longer knowing what you need. The problem is acting against yourself anyway. You know you need to rest... yet you keep saying yes. You know something doesn't feel right... yet you stay quiet. You know you're exhausted... yet you keep giving. This isn't because you're weak. It's because somewhere along the way, your nervous system learned that keeping the peace was safer than honouring yourself. That pattern has a cost. It slowly disconnects you from your intuition, your confidence, your relationships, and your wellbeing. Every time you betray yourself to avoid discomfort, you teach your nervous system that your needs come second. Eventually, you stop trusting yourself—not because your intuition disappeared, but because you've stopped listening to it. In this free 1-hour masterclass, we'll explore: → what self-abandonment actually looks like (it's often far more subtle than you think) → why people-pleasing is a nervous system survival strategy—not a personality trait → how guilt keeps you trapped in patterns of overgiving → why boundaries often fail, even when you know exactly what to say → the hidden cost of constantly choosing harmony over honesty → how to begin rebuilding self-loyalty without becoming cold, defensive, or disconnected You'll also experience a guided nervous system regulation process to help you reconnect with your own needs and inner signals. This isn't about becoming selfish. It's about becoming someone who no longer has to disappear in order to belong. [Claim your spot HERE! ](https://www.joyacademyglobal.com/event-details/stop-abandoning-yourself-why-you-keep-choosing-everyone-else-before-you) At the end of the session, you'll be invited to continue this work inside the ## **The Self-Loyalty Intensive** ### From Self-Abandonment → Self-Honouring Saturday 8t