The Cost of Being the Good One: The Perfectionism Pattern Keeping You Stuck

Name: The Cost of Being the Good One: The Perfectionism Pattern Keeping You Stuck
Start: 2026-09-10T23:00:00.000Z
End: 2026-09-11T02:00:00.000Z
Location: boston

boston, bostonThursday, Sep 10 · 7:00 PM

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**The Cost of Being the Good One: The Perfectionism Pattern That Is Keeping You Stuck** *Reset: A New Moon Experience for Women Ready to Rise* *Thursday September 10th · 7pm · Online · 90 Minutes · Free* **About This Event** You have been the good one for a long time. The responsible one. The capable one. The one who gets things done, holds things together and shows up for everyone ... reliably, quietly and without making a fuss. And you are exhausted. Not dramatically. Not in a way that anyone around you would necessarily notice. But underneath the capable exterior there is a very specific and very private exhaustion — the exhaustion of performing a standard that keeps moving, of giving without receiving, of maintaining an identity that was never quite yours to begin with. The Virgo New Moon arrives in the sign of discernment, service, health and daily practice, and it is asking one very direct question tonight. What has being the good one actually cost you? This is not a workshop about lowering your standards. Virgo at its highest is the sign of genuine excellence — the craftsperson who takes genuine pride in doing things well, the healer who notices what everyone else misses, the person whose daily habits genuinely reflect their deepest values. But perfectionism is not excellence. Perfectionism is a defense. And tonight we are going to look honestly at the difference — where it came from, what it has been protecting and what it has been costing you in the areas of your life that matter most. **What We Cover** This New Moon falls in Virgo — the sign of the mind, the body, daily practice and the specific ways we have learned to earn our sense of worth through performance, responsibility and getting things right. In this workshop we examine the perfectionism pattern directly as an inherited program that made complete sense once and is now costing more than it is giving, and how the combination of this pattern creates one of the most quietly exhausting patt

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